Why They’re Leaving The Church

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We do indeed need to show joy as Catholics.  

My motto…
“Be happily and uncomplicatedly
Catholic”

Michael J. Sheehan, Archbishop
of Santa Fe

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Why they’re leaving the Church- (Part 1 of 4)

(Let’s be aware of these problems and consider how we Joyful Catholics can help in the solution)

 This has been a rough time for me because some people who are special in my life have given up on Catholicism. A relative, who for her 40-plus years on this planet has been an active and happy Catholic, has now joined the Episcopal Church. Her comment was, “I suddenly realized how lonesome I was as a woman in the Catholic Church. Also, I wanted to quit a lifetime of playing a minor role – a second-rate citizen in a male dominated organization.”

I have empathy for her because I appreciate the splendid accomplishment and acceptance of women in the past seven decades. In the 1950s when I worked for the Hartford Insurance Company (then the largest USA insurer), it was company policy that women could only be typists and secretaries. The excuse for this  restriction was because “Our agents would not feel at ease talking with a  female underwriter.”  Twenty years later, I had a battle to get the bank board on which I was serving to add a woman director. They finally resented and the next year my woman board member was so popular they made her chairman of the important audit committee. Today, 15 of the Fortune 500 companies have women CEOs, and this number is increasing.

A Christian Brother friend, who counsels those who are shaky in their faith, told me that most women agree that at some point we should return to being a church of the
people, but few of them believe it will be anytime soon. They understand that  the aged bachelors who are calling the shots in the Vatican
move with a speed that would make a snail pace seem like an Olympic racer.

As a sign of the times, last month 300 Austrian priests have signed a “Call to Disobedience”, which calls for a parish to have an individual leader – whither man or woman, and for admission of women to the priesthood.

In her book There Is a Season, Joan Chittister, O.S.B., writes about the need for spiritual re-builders—those who take what other people only talk about and make it the next generation’s reality. She is right in that we should join together in our effort to make sense of relationships within our Church. We have made improvement in that the conservative priests who refused to let little girls serve on the altar are now in their dotage or have passed on to the next life. And although most of us can’t wait until 2111 when I predict the Vatican  will accept female deacons, we should now take positive steps to profess our admiration and appreciation for our woman church members. Mother Teresa said, “Holiness is not a luxury for the few; it is not for some people. It is meant for you and me, for all of us. It is a simple duty because if we learn to love, we learn to be holy.”

How do you think this can be done? (aljagoe@comcast.net)

 

 Other recommended Catholic blogs

Catholic Cuisine

The Shrine of the Holy Whapping

Testosterhome

 

Recommended
readings

“The Church and the Eucharist” in June/July Homiletic
& Pastoral Review

“It Doesn’t Sing” in July 13, Commonweal.

 “My Water, His Wine” in July-August Touchstone.

 

Roster
of Joyful Catholic Priests

The media loves to publicize bad priests, and we should give recognition to our Joyful Catholic Priests. Send me your recommendation for ones you think merit membership in this splendid group. (aljagoe@comcast.net)

Rev. Robert
Aufieri (NYC)

Rev. Edward
Gorman, O.P. (DE)

Fr. Andrew
Gries (DC)

Msgr. Edward
Filardi (MD)

Archbishop
Jerome Listecki, (MN)

Bishop Dennis
Madden (MD)

Fr. Joseph
Marini (CA)

Fr. John Mericantante (FL)

Msgr. Thomas
Modugno (NYC

Rev. John
O’Donoghue (TX)

Fr. Matthew
Ruhl, S.J. (KS)

Fr. Michael
Scanlon (OH)

Rev. Richard
Trout (FL)

Rev. Hayden
Vaverek (NYC)

Rev. Malcolm
Sylvester Willoughby, O.P. (DC)

Canon Stuart
Wilson (London, UK)
 

Invite Jesus to the Pub

We do indeed need to show joy as Catholics.   My motto
— “Be happily and uncomplicatedly
Catholic.”  
Michael J. Sheehan, Archbishop of Santa Fe

Invite Jesus to the Pub

I am a pub man. When I’m in the U.K., at 6 PM that’s where you’ll find me.  I walked in a pub a stranger—but not for long. The friendly fellow behind the bar asked,

 “What’ll it be, Yank?” – “What ale do you recommend?”

“Bombardier is the best.”  “Good, since I was a bombardier in WWII, I’ll take it.”           “Coming up, Mate.”

It’s strange that in America we can’t accept pub culture. If I have a friend who goes to a bar after work each day, I have reason to worry about him. In the U.K., if a friend doesn’t make frequent pub visits, he probably has problems.

There is something about the friendly, casual and at-ease atmosphere of a pub that makes one open up and want to share and listen. When I meet someone whom I sense I would enjoy as a friend, I invite him or her to join me at a pub. There, in a short time, we get to know one another in a solid way. It can often be the beginning of a lifetime friendship. That’s why I think it often a good idea (mentally) to
invite Jesus to meet me at a pub. There are things I would like to know about
him.  Also, I would appreciate his advice and opinion about things I am doing.
But to do this, I have to set aside a quiet time. And in preparation, I should
think about what we’ll talk about. He’s a great listener, and I have to
remember to shut up long enough to hear his advice. My imaginary pub is a
delight. Give it a try.

(And how does this idea grab you? aljagoe@comcast.net

 

Quiz

 (See answer at bottom)

1. After she joined a religious order, what was Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu’s name?

2. Who was the first male American to be canonized?

3. Which of these is not in all four gospels?

          – the loaves and the fishes,

          – bread and wine at the Last Supper,

          – the clearing out of the temple

          – the burial of Jesus

Other recommended Catholic blogs

-       Catholic and Enjoying It!

-       Ignatius Insight Scoop

-       By Sun and Candlelight

Recommended readings

-        “The Disease of Irreverence” in June New Oxford  Review

-        “The God Who Sees Me” and “Reflections  on Aging Spiritually”  in summer Spiritual Life. 

Roster of Joyful Catholic Priests

The media loves to publicize bad priests, and we should give recognition to our
Joyful Catholic Priests. Send me your recommendation for ones you think merit
membership in this splendid group. (aljagoe@comcast.net)

  • Rev. Robert Aufieri (NYC)
  • Rev. Edward Gorman, O.P. (DE)
  • Fr. Andrew Gries (DC)
  • Msgr. Edward Filardi (MD)
  • Bishop Dennis Madden (MD)
  • Fr. Joseph Marini (CA)
  • Fr. John Mericantante (FL)
  • Msgr. Thomas Modugno (NYC)
  • Fr. Matthew Ruhl, S.J. (KS)
  • Fr. Michael Scanlon (OH)
  • Rev. Richard Trout (FL)
  • Rev. Hayden Vaverek (NYC)
  • Rev. Malcolm Sylvester Willoughby, O.P. (DC)

Answer to Quiz

1-    Mother Teresa ofCalcutta

2-    John Neumann

3-    Bread and wine at the Last Supper

The Pope is Pregnant!

 

We do indeed need to show joy as Catholics.  

“Be happily and uncomplicatedly Catholic.” Michael J. Sheehan Archbishop of Santa Fe

 

The Pope is Pregnant!

 

Think of the explosive effect this story would make on the media throughout the world.  It could report that, sixty days ago, while praying in his private chapel, Pope Benedict XVI was impregnated by a spiritual power and a new human life was conceived in his abdomen.  The papal staff is now busy designing maternity robes for the Pope and arranging seven months from today for a caesarean operation to be performed in the Vatican Clinic. After her birth, the infant will be cared for by the Sisters of Charity until her adoption by a carefully selected married couple.

          During his pregnancy, the Pope would experience, rather than sense, the valuable role women perform in the being of mankind.  The following year he would summon a Council to revise Humanae Vitae so that laypeople have an active rather than passive role in effectively preventing unnecessary births.  His next action would be to approve of the Church having women deacons.

His successor, “Pope (?), the Joyful”, would preside over a Golden Era for the Church with both married and female priests during an epidemic expansion of Catholicism throughout the world

Returning to the news story, it would end with a statement from Pope Benedict during his retreat at Castel Gandolfo, where he is having difficulty with morning sickness. He said, “As I am merely a servant of the Lord, without question I accept what has happened to be His Will.”

And what are your thoughts about this supposed story? joyfulcatholic@comcast.com

Other recommended Catholic blogs

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ignis adens

Just another Catholic mom.

Recommended Readings

 “What did Jesus do?” article by Adam Gopnik in the May 24 New Yorker.  

In her New York Times interview with Christopher Hitchens, reporter Deborah Solomon did an excellent job of having him confirm he is an atheistic cipher.

 Life Lessons from the Monastery, book written by Jerome Kodell, O.S.B.

 Quiz

Last week, the winner of the autographed gift copy of Light Reading for Good and Wayward Catholics,  Sam Ellison in Phoenix, AZ, with a close second by Art Zoleta in Norwalk, CA.

1.     The College of Cardinals are responsible for electing the new Pope

2.     The period of the Crusades was 1095-1291.

3.     St. Thomas Aquinas wrote, “All the efforts of the human mind cannot exhaust the essence of a single fly.”

Here is this week’s quiz.  Who will be the book winner? Send you answers to joyfulcatholic@comcast.net.

    1 Who were the sons of Jebedee, and what did Jesus nickname them?

2 What is the maximum number of Cardinals Electors permitted to elect a Pope?

      

3 Who is the patron saint of farmers?   

News flashes

Phoenix Bishop Thomas Olmsted has proved that Pogo* was right. First, Olmsted enjoyed getting national publicity by blasting Notre Dame for honoring the President. He spent money to produce anti-gay marriage videos for homilies. Next, he has merited vast lack of respect for his calloused attitude towards the Hispanic Catholics in Arizona.

Now he has excommunicated Sister Margaret McBride (known as the “Mother Teresa” of Phoenix) because she agreed to an abortion in order to save the life of a 27-year-old mother of four. What do you think Jesus would have done?And what would you have done? (joyfulcatholic@comcast.net.)

          As this stupid man deserves our prayers that he will do no more damage to the Church, I am adding him to our Special Intentions List.

(*the cartoon figure who said, “We have found the enemy, and he is us.”)

What are your thoughts about this Church leader? joyfulcatholic@comcast.net

Never too Late, a Conversion Story

 We do indeed need to show joy as Catholics.   My motto — “Be happily and uncomplicatedly Catholic.”

Michael J Sheehan, Archbishop of Santa Fe

Never too Late, a Conversion Story

 By George Thatcher

George Thatcher is a remarkable man.  After a successful career in publishing and banking, he has continued his active involvement in helping others. Three times he was recognized as the outstanding citizen of the Mississippi Gulf Coast. As an author, his fourth book, A Decade of Beach Walks, is a compilation of his daily newspaper columns in which he demonstrates his delightful Thoreau-style appreciation of nature.

          As a fifth generation Episcopalian, he has been an international church leader, serving as Honorary Lay Canon of St. Peter’s Cathedral in the Anglican Diocese of Northern Malawi, Africa,  and heading for ten years the Bishop’s Fund for World Relief.  Then he recently converted to our Roman Catholic Church.  Here is his story:

           For me, traveling the road to Rome has been a long spiritual journey, beginning many years ago when an Anglo-Catholic rector, brimming with liturgical riches, came to the parish. Then there was the reading of Newman and Chesterton and Merton, of Muggeridge and Graham Green, of Teilhard and Dulles, and many more.  These were the days of the old American Church Union (does anyone remember?) of which I was a member. There we share a dream of the reunion of the Episcopal and the Roman Churches.

          In recent years the Lord’s call to me became frequent and more insistent. After much prayer, numerous retreats, consultations with family and friends, now an old man, I made the well-considered decision to spend the last years of my life as a Roman Catholic. I could have remained in my parish protected for a time from the drama that is unfolding elsewhere in the Episcopal Church. But I fear the wave of change sweeping the church endangers all of us who hold firmly to traditional beliefs.

          Why is it that modern churchmen devise new ideas, rejecting the teaching of the early Church fathers?  Does one of the modern revisionists have a mind or faith comparable to those of Athanasius or Augustine or Aquinas?  Yet they are eager to discard centuries of orthodox Christianity for contemporary materialistic philosophies.

          With wide open eyes, I see that the Roman Church in the U.S. is beset with problems, too, but it affords me an orthodox haven. This pope and the next assure continuation of church stability, rooted in Biblical verity and traditional values. In my new church I will simple be one of more than 50 million members in the U. S, and one of the nearly 2 billion worldwide. The catholicity appeals to me, and the spiritual leadership offered by the pope. the diocesan bishop, the pastor and luminaries like Cardinal Avery Dulles, Fr. Richard John Newman and others is something I need and want. In my 81st year, I embark on a new religious journey!

         (What is your story you would like to share?)

joyfulcatholic@comcast.net)

 

Interesting sayings 

More blessed is the person who greets his neighbor than the one who waits to be greeted by a neighbor or stranger. Don’t tell a person what it is to be a Catholic. Show by your joy and enthusiasm for the faith and your love for all of God’s people. Christianity is caught more than taught.

                                                Brother Ed Adams, F.S.C.

 

The Savior becomes all things to all, according to the need of each. To those who ask for joy, he becomes the vine; to those who wish to enter, he becomes the door; to those who are under the weight of sin, he becomes a lamb, a lamb slain for them. He becomes all things to all, but he remains nonetheless what he is.  

                                                Saint Cyril of Jerusalem (386)

I am ready to meet my Maker — but whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter.

                                                Winston Churchill (1965)

Oh most merciful One, teach me to throw a party for the unworthy, knowing that I may be the guest of honor.

 Sister Macrina Weiderkehr, O.S.B.

 

 

Mother Teresa’s seven steps to spiritual achievement:

1.     Slow down

2.     Make some room.

3.     Open your eyes

4.     Put great love into the small things

5.     Do not tire

6.     Remember — it’s faithfulness, not success

7.     Leave the rest to Jesus.

 

My new blog friend

Thomas Peters, who lives in Washington, DC, is a splendid young lay Catholic with graduate degrees in theology. He edits the excellent American Papist blog, which I strongly endorse.  For your enjoyment, check it out. 

 

News flashes

Irish bookmaker Paddy Power is placing 3 to 1 odds that the Pope will resign because of the allegations of child abuse in Germany. (Comment: Paddy, you ought to stick to horse-racing.)

 

- Catholic Charities of the Archdiocese of  Washington has close its 80-year-old foster care and public adoption program to avoid the risk of having to accept same-sex couples as foster or adoptive parents. (Comment: This is like a kennel keeper who decides no longer to care for his hundred pedigreed dogs because he might have to accept a cur.)

-   In New Zealand the Atheist Bus Campaign is fuming because of the rejection of its ad, “There’s probably no God. Now stop worrying and enjoy your life.”  And here in USA, Annie Laurie Gaylor, of the Freedom from Religion Foundation, is protesting the issuance of a Mother Teresa stamp. (Comment: Annie Laurie, don’t you have something better to do, perhaps like empting the dishwasher?)

                                      A Shocker

Regardless of my thoughts about pro-life and pro-choice, this account sickened me, because I recognized it as a sign of today’s materialistic me-me-me society. I learned of a woman, desperate to have a child, who finally conceived with medical assistance.  Three months later, when she found she was carrying twins, she didn’t want the trouble and expense of caring for two children, so she had one of the babies aborted.

At the Vigil Mass for my much beloved friend, Msgr. W. Louis Quinn, even though the coffin was closed, I could picture this saintly man shaking his head in protest when a member of his family (who evidently had read my column “Communion-Juicy Fruit Flavor”) chewed gum throughout the service, even while receiving the Sacred Host.

 

Recommended reading

 -   In the March 3 issue of America, John J. DiIulio, Jr. author of Godly Republic, informs us about our prison problem.

-    On page 56 in The Economist (March 13) there is an excellent article about the problems of the Church in Germany.

 -   You will enjoy Father Mark Plaushin’s article, “St. Francis de Sales’ Introduction to the Devout Life, 1609-2009” in the March issue of Homiletic & Pastoral Review.

Contributions

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Catholic and enjoying it.

Connell Society for a Good Time

Deeps of time

Insight Scoop

Intentional Disciples

More than enough

 

Communiqués received 

Our mother has few weeks left and we are planning her final Mass, one that is joyful, uplifting and soothing. Mom always had an unwavering affection for the Blessed Virgin; therefore we are trying to find readings and music that would reflect Mom’s embracement of her Catholic faith and joy of life, her service to others and her strength..   

                                      wetseas@aol.com

Thank you for your note, letting me know of your kind mention of our work in your blog.

                   Steve Mosher, President of Population Research Institute

As Quintanilla says there are cultural differences. However, we Catholics can be happy that the Mass in whatever language is seen and experienced permitting different Rites because it believes in cultural approach and in the enrichment of Catholic faith in different forms of worship. I belong to Syro Malabar Rite which is confined to the State of Kerala in India. When we grow in the universal faith of Catholicism giving utmost value to family and its sacredness, there will be joy and satisfaction.

                   Kalapurra Thomas

Just found your blog. Nice place you got here! By the way, last I saw, the presidential dollar coin had “In God we trust” inscribed on the edge of the coin rather than either side.

                   S. Murphy

I found young Hugo’s article about the English and Spanish Masses to be thought provoking. Let’s hope our priests conducting the English services can learn from this.

                   Adam Wentworth

Your blog is one of my favorites on BlogSpot.

                   Jim Woods “56, male, last seen 1 day ago”

Young Hugo’s article confirmed the virtues of immigration. For example, 37 of the 40 of the finalists in the 2010 Intel Science Talent Search were children of recent arrivals from China, Japan and India. What does that tell you?

Roger Bertram

My favorite religious priest, layperson or organization

Special recognition is deserved for Mark Neilson, editor of Living Faith, Daily Catholic Devotions, published by Creative Communications for the Parish.  For many years, I have started my day by reading Living Faith, which never fails to inspire me. It is like benefiting from a brief visit with some of the best of today’s theologians.  I recommend that you subscribe to Living Faith (www.livingfaith.com.).

Thank you, Mark, for your outstanding contribution to our Catholic community!

(Now, tell me about your favorite Catholic priest, layperson or organization that is making a difference.)

joyfulcatholic@comcast.net

Quiz

 The first to send the right answers to joyfulcatholic@comcast.net will receive a gift copy of Light Reading for Good and Wayward Catholics.

1.     Which three disciples did Jesus take with him when he went up to the mountain where the Transfiguration took place?

 

2.   Who was the pope who commissioned Michelangelo to paint the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel?

           

3.     Who is the patron saint of brewers?

 

Chuckle time

In a remote Irish parish on the final day of Lent, the parish caretaker felt obligated to go to confession.  His sin was having stolen the priest’s watch. Inside the booth, in a disguised voice, he confessed he had stolen something, and the priest said to be absolved, he had to return it.

          The caretaker said, “Instead, I’ll give it to you.”

          “But I don’t want it,” replied the priest.

          After a moment of silence, the man said, “I have offered it to the man I stole it from, and he doesn’t want it.”

          “In that case,” the priest said, “I absolve you of your sins and you can keep whatever it is.”

Special Intentions List

As you pray with a broad brush, please include these loved ones, who have been submitted by our readers. You, too, are invited to send me names of your special persons who are in need of prayer. My address is joyfulcatholic@comcast.net. They will be on the list for 60 days. At the end of that time, if prayers are still needed, you merely have to renew the name.

Juanita Caldwell, Isola Todd, David Abbey, Amie Ellis, Linwood “Skip” Williams, Gerry Paradiso, Tom Medved, Eileen Grotsky,

Roseanne Somlock, Nicholas Gallagher, Tom Lewis, Donald Whitcomb, Violeta Zepeda, John Aylor, Rev. Joseph Marini, Enrique Portillo,

Sharon McPike, Tom Ryan, Joseph Normile, Jim Quimby,Russell Edwards, Rev. Lawrence Boedt, Gertrude Goldstein,

Rev. Stephen Huffstetter, Hugh Cannon, Eric Moore, Joan Barrett,

8-year-old Michael Fotta and his parents, Lolita Alvarez\,

Camilus Musselman

As you note, because of miraculous healings, several names have been deleted and added to our Deo Gratias list.